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Add six ounces brandy.

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[yawning]

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[screaming]

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Jess?

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JESSIE: Oh!

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[screaming]

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You OK?

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JESSIE: The toilet seat.

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Look what you've done
to your [inaudible]..

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Why do you have
to be such a guy?

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TOM: Well, I just got
attacked by your panties.

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And why do you have
to be such a girl?

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I have a right to
dry my underwear.

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TOM: Yeah, and I have a
right to void my bladder.

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Why is the seat such
an issue with you?

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[gasping]

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Fire, fire!

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Um, here.

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The window.

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[sighing]

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[whooshing flames]

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And that's what happens
when you leave the seat up.

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[THEME - HAWKSLEY WORKMAN AND
DOLLY, "YES I DO"]

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THEME SONG: Can we find a
way that can be together?

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Is there any way that
we can be together?

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And, oh, by the way,
baby, do you love me?

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Yes, I do.

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Yes, I do.

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Yes, I do.

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Yes, I do.

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TOM: Why is the onus
always on the guy.

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I mean, who says the seat
always has to be down?

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JESSIE: I use it more
often with the seat down

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than you do with the seat up.

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More often?

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What do you do with the seat up?

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I bob for apples.

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You're missing the point.

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The seat flipped up is
a statistical anomaly.

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And drying 50 pairs of
underwear at the same time is--

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A privilege you never thought
you'd have in your life.

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Why can't men lower the seat?

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I don't want to be this couple.
- No.

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We're better than this.
- We are.

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We have to be.

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Well, then, I'll flip it down.

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I can develop night vision.

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Well, I'll flip it down.

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It's fine.

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We're awesome.

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JUDITH: I just got a call
from Connie Everhart.

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Remind me?

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Connie and I were
working together

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on the foreign currencies
department when you and I met.

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Oh.

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JUDITH: She said
there's a position

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opening in her department.

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BEN: Well, I think
Wendy's prepared to become

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a latchkey kid.

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She's already at
work on my resume.

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It's only a junior position,
but it might be the perfect way

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to re-enter the workforce.

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Whatever makes
you happy, Judith.

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A little job might
be fine for you,

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now that the pressure's off.

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Huh?

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You know, if I'd been
working this whole time,

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then the pressure
would really be off.

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Because I'd be earning
five times your salary.

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Ouch.

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So what are we watching next?

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CARTER: "Granny panties?"

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No way.
"Scarface."

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AVA: I love Al Pacino.

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But every time he says, "Say
hello to my little friend,"

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I lose interest.

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He's talking about his gun.

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Not the one you think.

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Come on.

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Guy movie, girl movie.

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That's so outdated.
- Yeah.

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I mean, aren't we past all this?

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What makes you so
superior all of a sudden?

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Tom has agreed
to lower the seat.

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And yet I find him as virile
and masculine as ever.

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Kiss-ass.

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No, Carter.

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That's what makes
our marriage great.

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We're beyond sexist stereotypes.

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In fact, I will go out
on a limb and say Jessie

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and I are post-gender.

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JESSIE: As in we are no
longer bound by the cliches

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of male/female behaviors.

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Yeah.

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You guys owe me for the pizza.

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Uh, Tom, where's your wallet?

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Uh, Jess?

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JESSIE: Uh, top shelf,
left, beside the cactus.

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AVA: You know what?

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I vote "Scarface."

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Fire it up.

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Tom?

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AVA: And the man
drives the remote.

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CARTER: No stereotypes there.

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So how did my wallet
end up on the bookcase?

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You were cooking.

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You took off your pants.

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The wallet fell out.
You picked it up.

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You wanted to look
at a cookbook.

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You can remember
all that, but you

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can't remember the instructions
for using the remote?

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I don't like manuals.
There's no protagonist.

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Well, There must be some
other way that we are atypical.

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Hey.

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I do all the cooking.

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Gordon Ramsay,
Jamie Oliver, France.

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You're good at math.

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That's a very male thing.

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And it's a very male
thing for you to think that.

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It's very female of you
to get emotional about it

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I was repeating what you said.

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You said it a certain way.

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You heard it in
an emotional way.

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Are you saying
I'm a bad listener?

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Now who's getting emotional?

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Wouldn't that
make me post-gender.

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I don't know.

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Oh, man.

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Am I sexist for
wanting the seat up?

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Am I sexist for wanting
my girlfriend to spank me?

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[inaudible]

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CARTER: Look, you be
as liberal as you want.

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But the toilet seat?

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That's a no-fly zone.

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No, it's a no-splash
zone according to Jessie.

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Not our problem.

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You have to assert
yourself and be the man.

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I am a man.
CARTER: No, no.

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The.

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Man.

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OK?

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Not, uh, [mumbling]

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But I told Jesse I was
fine with the seat down.

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Dude, you have to stand tall.

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Literally.

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JESSIE: It's not the seat.

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It's what it represents.

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All he has to do
is give the seat

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one little flick of his finger.

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It's not gender
equality if you

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don't flip it back up, sweetie.

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Do you think I can get
an 18-pound bird in here?

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What'd the 18-pound
bird do to you?

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I figure I could fry
a turkey in a coffee

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urn instead of a deep fryer.

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That way, your mom won't notice.

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Mm.

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Turkey-flavored party coffee.

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Good point.

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I'll get the fryer
and I'll disguise it.

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JESSIE: Dad, why are you
lowering all the toilet seats?

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Funny girl.

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Garbage can.

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Nobody would make
coffee in that!

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JESSIE: Tom?

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The weirdest thing
happened with my dad today.

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We were out the--

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the seat is up.

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Yeah.

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I changed my mind.

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Which is my prerogative,
since we don't subscribe

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to those sexist stereotypes.

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Yes.

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But we agreed that--

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Yeah.

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But you said you were
happy to go the other way.

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Right.

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We are not a couple.

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So not that couple.

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What's this about your dad?

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What's for dinner?

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So we were at
the hardware store,

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and I watched Dad walk
through the plumbing section

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and lower every toilet
seat in the aisle.

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Well, your father is
a very fastidious man.

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Thoughtful.

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Yeah.
Compulsive.

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JESSIE: Yeah.

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I'd like to know what you
said to make him compulsive.

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Because right now, Tom's
refusing to lower the seat.

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Ah, you're losing the
toilet seat battle, huh?

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When I got pregnant, your
father wanted to stop smoking.

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Well, cigarettes, anyway.

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So he saw a hypnotist.

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Turns out he was
highly suggestible.

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You had him hypnotized?

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No.

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I just had her throw
in a couple of extras.

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I didn't really expect
that it would work.

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- Does dad even know?
- No.

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All he knows is that he's happy.

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And we never argue
about the toilet seat.

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In my country, women
pee standing up.

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Also, we don't
have toilet seats.

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There has to be another way.

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BEN: Specialized in
long-term investments

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with a concentration in
human resources planning.

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Or should I
refer to the family

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as "ecosystem management?"

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Yeah.

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That'd be more green.

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Wily, Judith.

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You're wily.

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Of course, it's only
really work experience

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when you're getting a paycheck.

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But well-done.

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Judith, can I talk to you
but a housekeeping issue?

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Love you, honey.

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Even if I leave the seat up?

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Especially when you do.

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In fact, I feel morally
obligated to love you even

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more, since you could easily
develop prostatic hypertrophy

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from standing up to pee.

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And while it won't kill you,
it could lead to impotence

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and complete urinary blockage.

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And I want you to remember
that I loved you before that.

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And not just out of pity.

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- You're joking.
- I wish I was.

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Hyper what?

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Prostatic hypertrophy.

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[giggles]

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BEN: Prostatic hypertrophy?

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Of course I've heard of it.

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Although it's good
to hear that Jessie's

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now on top of male
incontinence conditions.

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TOM: I did some research, and
no one has found a direct link.

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Yet, Jessie says you
have to sit to avoid it.

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Of course there's a link.

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And sitting is a
small price to pay

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to avoid incontinence,
urinary blockage, impotence.

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You're a sitter?

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With the prostate
of a 15-year-old boy,

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according to my urologist.

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Well, it wouldn't be the
prostate of a 15-year-old girl,

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now, would it?

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Did your urologist tell
you about the condition?

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No.

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Your mother did originally.

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How long after
you were married?

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23 years, Judith.

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JESSIE: There is no link
between whether you stand

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to deliver in that condition.

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There's no proof that
there's no link, either.

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What--

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You never got it.

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I still get the
debate it all, you guys.

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Like I told Jessie, we each bear
responsibility for ourselves.

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TOM: Exactly.

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I have to flip it
up just as much

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as she has to flip it down.

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Actually, the up position
is a statistical anomaly,

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if you think about it.

263
00:09:29,302 --> 00:09:30,103
What?

264
00:09:34,074 --> 00:09:35,308
Why did I just do that?

265
00:09:35,408 --> 00:09:36,209
I don't know.

266
00:09:36,309 --> 00:09:37,310
Did I do it before?

267
00:09:37,410 --> 00:09:38,211
BEN: Three times.

268
00:09:38,311 --> 00:09:41,281
Impulsively.

269
00:09:41,381 --> 00:09:42,983
Get a hold of yourself, man.

270
00:09:43,083 --> 00:09:43,884
Tara.

271
00:09:47,888 --> 00:09:49,256
Huh, huh, huh.

272
00:09:49,356 --> 00:09:50,523
What did she do to Him

273
00:09:50,624 --> 00:09:53,293
You see what we're
dealing with here, son?

274
00:09:53,393 --> 00:09:56,329
Women are the German
army, and we're Poland.

275
00:09:56,429 --> 00:09:58,799
And we can't afford to
wait for the Americans.

276
00:09:58,899 --> 00:10:01,201
I think you've been watching
too much History Channel.

277
00:10:01,301 --> 00:10:03,203
I am going to be
marching back into my home

278
00:10:03,303 --> 00:10:04,838
and telling your
mother what's what.

279
00:10:04,938 --> 00:10:05,739
TOM: Yeah.

280
00:10:05,839 --> 00:10:06,807
Me too.

281
00:10:06,907 --> 00:10:07,708
Well, Jessie.

282
00:10:07,808 --> 00:10:09,076
Not mom.

283
00:10:09,176 --> 00:10:10,177
She's allowed to brainwash me.

284
00:10:12,579 --> 00:10:13,981
You hypnotized me?

285
00:10:14,081 --> 00:10:16,449
It's brought us years of
peace and harmony, honey.

286
00:10:16,549 --> 00:10:18,318
You stole my free will.

287
00:10:18,418 --> 00:10:19,720
You're exaggerating.

288
00:10:19,820 --> 00:10:20,620
I'm taking it back, Tara.

289
00:10:20,721 --> 00:10:21,755
And you can't stop me.

290
00:10:21,855 --> 00:10:24,424
Watermelon.

291
00:10:24,524 --> 00:10:25,325
What did you say?

292
00:10:29,663 --> 00:10:31,331
Grapefruit.

293
00:10:31,431 --> 00:10:32,933
Cantaloupe.

294
00:10:33,033 --> 00:10:34,367
Damn it.

295
00:10:34,467 --> 00:10:38,171
I know the code was
some kind of fruit.

296
00:10:38,271 --> 00:10:40,407
TOM: You don't get to
choose when I'm the man

297
00:10:40,507 --> 00:10:41,374
and when I'm not.

298
00:10:41,474 --> 00:10:42,609
So I get to choose
if you're a man?

299
00:10:42,710 --> 00:10:44,277
Because right now,
that's up for debate.

300
00:10:44,377 --> 00:10:45,412
Low blow, Jess.

301
00:10:45,512 --> 00:10:47,047
Post -gender you
wouldn't notice.

302
00:10:47,147 --> 00:10:49,616
TOM: Well, despite the
hair, I am not a candle.

303
00:10:49,717 --> 00:10:52,052
If you were, I'd donate
you to a toy drive.

304
00:10:52,152 --> 00:10:55,088
PHIL: 35,600, give or take.

305
00:10:55,188 --> 00:10:57,958
That's how many times they
made me flip this thing down.

306
00:10:58,058 --> 00:10:59,659
I'm taking it back to her.

307
00:10:59,760 --> 00:11:01,394
I'm taking it all back.

308
00:11:01,494 --> 00:11:02,362
BEN: No, no, no, no.

309
00:11:02,462 --> 00:11:03,797
I always knew
where my keys were.

310
00:11:03,897 --> 00:11:05,966
I just love the way you look
when you bring them to me.

311
00:11:06,066 --> 00:11:07,500
[laughs]

312
00:11:21,381 --> 00:11:22,182
Nice.

313
00:11:29,622 --> 00:11:31,358
Does this mean you won't
be killing centipedes

314
00:11:31,458 --> 00:11:32,726
in the bathtub anymore?

315
00:11:32,826 --> 00:11:33,626
BEN: Thomas.

316
00:11:37,230 --> 00:11:38,031
Oh.

317
00:11:38,131 --> 00:11:38,932
It's on.

318
00:11:52,312 --> 00:11:54,848
What this calls
for, gentlemen,

319
00:11:54,948 --> 00:11:58,318
is deep-fried turkey, to
be eaten in our underwear.

320
00:12:03,757 --> 00:12:05,592
[toilet flushing]

321
00:12:08,128 --> 00:12:09,496
Standing tall.

322
00:12:09,596 --> 00:12:10,630
Welcome back, brother.

323
00:12:10,730 --> 00:12:12,065
[chuckles]

324
00:12:17,971 --> 00:12:18,939
It won't last.

325
00:12:19,039 --> 00:12:20,540
This is a spat, right?

326
00:12:20,640 --> 00:12:22,042
Spats have a time
limit of an hour.

327
00:12:22,142 --> 00:12:23,076
Oh, no, no, no.

328
00:12:23,176 --> 00:12:25,312
This has been a
long time coming.

329
00:12:25,412 --> 00:12:27,614
23 years for me.

330
00:12:27,714 --> 00:12:28,782
Tom and I had
this figured out.

331
00:12:28,882 --> 00:12:29,716
I don't know what happened.

332
00:12:29,817 --> 00:12:32,119
I remember when
Tom was a toddler.

333
00:12:32,219 --> 00:12:33,486
I bought him a doll.

334
00:12:33,586 --> 00:12:36,623
He took one look at it, and
then he ran it along the floor

335
00:12:36,723 --> 00:12:39,492
yelling "vroom, vroom!"

336
00:12:39,592 --> 00:12:40,794
He loved that little pink truck.

337
00:12:40,894 --> 00:12:43,096
TARA: But we don't have to
give in to these oppressive

338
00:12:43,196 --> 00:12:44,597
stereotypes, do we?

339
00:12:44,697 --> 00:12:48,135
I mean, I remember, Jessie went
through this horrible tutus

340
00:12:48,235 --> 00:12:49,402
and tiaras stage.

341
00:12:49,502 --> 00:12:52,139
"The Feminine Mystique for
Five- to 10-year-olds?"

342
00:12:52,239 --> 00:12:53,073
Took care of that one.

343
00:12:53,173 --> 00:12:54,274
Wow.

344
00:12:54,374 --> 00:12:55,475
Pedantism and brainwashing.

345
00:12:55,575 --> 00:12:56,676
TARA: Hey.

346
00:12:56,776 --> 00:12:58,045
That's a beautiful
bedtime story.

347
00:12:58,145 --> 00:13:00,881
JESSIE: All this proves
is that we can't help it.

348
00:13:00,981 --> 00:13:03,116
I was born to hate
centipedes Tom was

349
00:13:03,216 --> 00:13:05,252
born to smash men to a pulp.

350
00:13:05,352 --> 00:13:07,787
Lose this battle,
you lose the war.

351
00:13:07,888 --> 00:13:10,623
Here, here.

352
00:13:10,723 --> 00:13:11,524
No thanks.

353
00:13:11,624 --> 00:13:13,460
I've got popcorn bloat.

354
00:13:18,298 --> 00:13:19,099
Oh.

355
00:13:26,306 --> 00:13:27,174
Welcome back.

356
00:13:30,710 --> 00:13:32,012
BEN: Marriage.

357
00:13:32,112 --> 00:13:34,181
It's like a lawn mower.

358
00:13:34,281 --> 00:13:35,115
You think everything's fine.

359
00:13:35,215 --> 00:13:36,984
And suddenly, it blows up.

360
00:13:37,084 --> 00:13:39,752
PHIL: All those times,
flipping that toilet seat down.

361
00:13:39,853 --> 00:13:40,787
And I didn't even know it.

362
00:13:40,888 --> 00:13:43,323
See how long they
can make it without us.

363
00:13:43,423 --> 00:13:45,959
TOM: Dad, you are aware
of what year it is, right?

364
00:13:46,059 --> 00:13:47,961
And that they have air
conditioning over there?

365
00:13:48,061 --> 00:13:49,429
Son, we are
different for a reason.

366
00:13:49,529 --> 00:13:52,799
And they are going to find out
that they miss that difference.

367
00:13:52,900 --> 00:13:55,602
PHIL: Do I even like
deep-fried turkey?

368
00:13:55,702 --> 00:13:58,271
JESSIE: OK, let's get
this "Sex and the City"

369
00:13:58,371 --> 00:14:00,007
marathon rolling, shall we?

370
00:14:00,107 --> 00:14:01,708
No way the guys are
having this much fun.

371
00:14:13,653 --> 00:14:14,787
TOM: Smells funny.

372
00:14:14,888 --> 00:14:16,289
PHIL: Well, that's how I
was supposed to work, dude.

373
00:14:16,389 --> 00:14:17,290
It's gonna be awesome.

374
00:14:17,390 --> 00:14:19,759
Yeah, well, you
might not even like it.

375
00:14:19,859 --> 00:14:22,029
I mean, it's probably
programmed right out of you.

376
00:14:22,129 --> 00:14:24,131
BEN: But you know,
Tara really did have

377
00:14:24,231 --> 00:14:26,633
your best interest at heart.

378
00:14:26,733 --> 00:14:28,001
Well, it's true.

379
00:14:28,101 --> 00:14:30,503
And, yeah, Judith bamboozled me.

380
00:14:30,603 --> 00:14:32,239
But I really do have the
prostate of a 15-year-old,

381
00:14:32,339 --> 00:14:33,273
you know.

382
00:14:33,373 --> 00:14:34,908
And what about you
going back to work

383
00:14:35,008 --> 00:14:36,609
and rubbing your face
in her higher salary?

384
00:14:36,709 --> 00:14:39,079
Well, truth is, a little
extra scratch wouldn't hurt.

385
00:14:39,179 --> 00:14:39,980
TOM: No.

386
00:14:40,080 --> 00:14:41,048
We can't let them win.

387
00:14:41,148 --> 00:14:42,082
We'll never hear the end of it.

388
00:14:42,182 --> 00:14:43,416
[groaning]

389
00:14:43,516 --> 00:14:44,651
I miss my bed.

390
00:14:44,751 --> 00:14:45,585
Hey.

391
00:14:45,685 --> 00:14:46,486
Look.

392
00:14:53,293 --> 00:14:54,161
Oh.

393
00:14:54,261 --> 00:14:55,328
What's that blue glow?

394
00:14:55,428 --> 00:14:56,529
They're trying to watch a DVD.

395
00:14:56,629 --> 00:14:59,366
[laughs]

396
00:14:59,466 --> 00:15:00,934
[high-pitched whistling]

397
00:15:01,034 --> 00:15:01,834
Incoming!

398
00:15:10,310 --> 00:15:11,211
Pizza?

399
00:15:11,311 --> 00:15:12,179
[splashing]

400
00:15:12,279 --> 00:15:13,180
[shouting]

401
00:15:13,280 --> 00:15:14,647
[toilet flushing]

402
00:15:19,686 --> 00:15:21,088
My thighs gave out.

403
00:15:21,188 --> 00:15:22,622
That water is cold.

404
00:15:25,658 --> 00:15:27,727
Perhaps we should retrieve
the toilet seat, huh?

405
00:15:27,827 --> 00:15:28,628
It's gone.

406
00:15:28,728 --> 00:15:29,562
Good lord.

407
00:15:29,662 --> 00:15:32,265
Who would take a
used toilet seat?

408
00:15:32,365 --> 00:15:34,201
JUDITH: You better not
be late for my interview.

409
00:15:34,301 --> 00:15:36,403
JESSIE: You've still
got time to not watch

410
00:15:36,503 --> 00:15:38,638
another "Sex and the City."

411
00:15:38,738 --> 00:15:40,007
I wonder if they miss
their toilet seat.

412
00:15:40,107 --> 00:15:41,341
Hey, Sleeping Beauty.

413
00:15:41,441 --> 00:15:43,010
JESSIE: We may actually
get to Channel 3.

414
00:15:43,110 --> 00:15:45,012
Or modern women.

415
00:15:45,112 --> 00:15:47,014
Why can't we figure this out?

416
00:15:47,114 --> 00:15:49,949
Maybe each sex excelling
at certain things

417
00:15:50,050 --> 00:15:51,084
is what makes it work.

418
00:15:51,184 --> 00:15:52,219
Nonsense.

419
00:15:52,319 --> 00:15:53,920
We're just as capable as men.

420
00:15:54,021 --> 00:15:55,555
Says the
hypnotizer/brainwasher.

421
00:15:55,655 --> 00:15:57,857
The quickest way to end this--

422
00:15:57,957 --> 00:15:59,059
We can't look like quitters.

423
00:15:59,159 --> 00:16:00,527
No.

424
00:16:00,627 --> 00:16:02,495
We create a list of demands.

425
00:16:02,595 --> 00:16:04,264
Include more than you
want, so they feel they can

426
00:16:04,364 --> 00:16:05,865
take something away from you.

427
00:16:05,965 --> 00:16:08,268
Even if you don't
really need it.

428
00:16:08,368 --> 00:16:10,603
And they can feel they're
being magnanimous.

429
00:16:10,703 --> 00:16:13,006
Ooh, You God.

430
00:16:13,106 --> 00:16:14,574
Could use some
help cleaning up.

431
00:16:14,674 --> 00:16:16,543
Cleaning up what?

432
00:16:16,643 --> 00:16:17,544
All this garbage.

433
00:16:17,644 --> 00:16:18,445
The bottles.

434
00:16:18,545 --> 00:16:19,612
The turkey shrapnel.

435
00:16:19,712 --> 00:16:24,551
If this keeps up, I'm
bunking with the women.

436
00:16:24,651 --> 00:16:26,019
Dad.

437
00:16:26,119 --> 00:16:29,022
Seriously I could
never not see this.

438
00:16:29,122 --> 00:16:29,956
You know, it's everywhere.

439
00:16:30,057 --> 00:16:31,158
It needs picking up.

440
00:16:31,258 --> 00:16:34,294
Yeah, it's great that
you're here to do it, too.

441
00:16:34,394 --> 00:16:35,862
Jessie and I were right.

442
00:16:35,962 --> 00:16:38,598
No, we're not that couple,
because we're not old.

443
00:16:38,698 --> 00:16:39,666
Hey.

444
00:16:39,766 --> 00:16:41,868
And I don't care
about the toilet seat,

445
00:16:41,968 --> 00:16:43,936
because Jessie and I,
you know, we're equal.

446
00:16:44,037 --> 00:16:45,138
That's how you brought us up.

447
00:16:45,238 --> 00:16:46,539
That must have
been your mother.

448
00:16:46,639 --> 00:16:47,540
I'm heading over there.

449
00:16:47,640 --> 00:16:49,309
Surrendering?

450
00:16:49,409 --> 00:16:50,677
I prefer to call it giving up.

451
00:16:50,777 --> 00:16:52,845
But you can't let
it end like this.

452
00:16:52,945 --> 00:16:54,381
We've got to hold
on to our dignity.

453
00:16:54,481 --> 00:16:56,449
JESSIE: I can help
you with that.

454
00:16:56,549 --> 00:16:57,350
Our demands.

455
00:17:02,355 --> 00:17:03,390
PHIL: So what have we got?

456
00:17:03,490 --> 00:17:05,958
"You accept the use of
the word 'thingamajig'

457
00:17:06,059 --> 00:17:07,360
to refer to all tools."

458
00:17:07,460 --> 00:17:08,528
"Manscape?"

459
00:17:08,628 --> 00:17:10,430
What the heck is a man--

460
00:17:10,530 --> 00:17:11,331
oh.

461
00:17:11,431 --> 00:17:12,632
Was it terrible last night?

462
00:17:12,732 --> 00:17:14,867
There were some dark hours
when we realized you guys

463
00:17:14,967 --> 00:17:16,002
weren't giving up on the DVD.

464
00:17:16,103 --> 00:17:17,337
Oh, I figured it out.

465
00:17:17,437 --> 00:17:20,006
I just couldn't take another
"Sex and the City" marathon.

466
00:17:20,107 --> 00:17:21,574
I love you.

467
00:17:21,674 --> 00:17:22,475
So how was it.

468
00:17:22,575 --> 00:17:23,610
Did you run out of chocolate?

469
00:17:23,710 --> 00:17:25,578
It was actually more
of a popcorn and wine

470
00:17:25,678 --> 00:17:27,347
spritzer kind of night.
- Uh-huh.

471
00:17:27,447 --> 00:17:29,282
Sounds better than beer
and burping the anthem

472
00:17:29,382 --> 00:17:30,950
between turkey chunks.

473
00:17:31,050 --> 00:17:32,051
Ew.

474
00:17:32,152 --> 00:17:33,286
I couldn't believe how
stubborn they were.

475
00:17:33,386 --> 00:17:35,222
Well, it's probably
that time of the month.

476
00:17:35,322 --> 00:17:36,789
And how else would we
get into this mess?

477
00:17:38,791 --> 00:17:40,660
BEN: This is outrageous.

478
00:17:40,760 --> 00:17:41,728
Joke.

479
00:17:41,828 --> 00:17:42,795
So a joke.

480
00:17:42,895 --> 00:17:44,531
Jokes are funny, Tom.

481
00:17:44,631 --> 00:17:45,532
I'm an idiot.

482
00:17:45,632 --> 00:17:46,433
It's an 8.

483
00:17:46,533 --> 00:17:47,767
The offer has expired.

484
00:17:51,037 --> 00:17:55,342
TARA: Don't you see that it's
a male-dominated industry that

485
00:17:55,442 --> 00:17:57,844
contributes no real
value to the economy?

486
00:17:57,944 --> 00:17:59,045
Sign me up.

487
00:17:59,146 --> 00:18:00,847
Just hand them over.
- No.

488
00:18:00,947 --> 00:18:02,282
We're having the
"who's on top" argument

489
00:18:02,382 --> 00:18:04,517
with the guys, not each other.

490
00:18:04,617 --> 00:18:05,852
And the fight must go on.

491
00:18:05,952 --> 00:18:06,753
Thank you.

492
00:18:06,853 --> 00:18:07,987
TARA: Let's face it.

493
00:18:08,087 --> 00:18:10,890
You put two people together,
regardless of gender,

494
00:18:10,990 --> 00:18:12,125
they're gonna wrestle
over something.

495
00:18:12,225 --> 00:18:15,995
The truth is, it's more
fun wrestling with the men.

496
00:18:16,095 --> 00:18:17,130
JESSIE: So?

497
00:18:17,230 --> 00:18:18,030
Now what?

498
00:18:18,131 --> 00:18:18,998
WENDY: I'm back.

499
00:18:19,098 --> 00:18:21,033
What we need is a closer.

500
00:18:21,134 --> 00:18:23,736
Something they can't say no to.

501
00:18:23,836 --> 00:18:25,338
What happened to
the living room?

502
00:18:25,438 --> 00:18:26,773
Hey, sweetie.

503
00:18:26,873 --> 00:18:27,674
How was the sleepover?

504
00:18:27,774 --> 00:18:28,608
It was OK.

505
00:18:28,708 --> 00:18:29,909
Everybody talked about boys.

506
00:18:30,009 --> 00:18:31,578
It's hard to believe
they're that compelling.

507
00:18:31,678 --> 00:18:32,712
I know.

508
00:18:32,812 --> 00:18:34,647
Then there's all the
stuff you do with boys.

509
00:18:34,747 --> 00:18:36,149
It's pretty confusing.

510
00:18:41,654 --> 00:18:43,223
You don't even like poker.

511
00:18:43,323 --> 00:18:44,724
You hardly need a poker night.

512
00:18:44,824 --> 00:18:45,892
So we'll make it Risk night.

513
00:18:45,992 --> 00:18:46,793
No.

514
00:18:46,893 --> 00:18:48,461
50% of Tara's carrot harvest?

515
00:18:48,561 --> 00:18:51,464
I want to give the
deep fryer another shot.

516
00:18:51,564 --> 00:18:53,566
Dad, what's orgasmic?

517
00:18:53,666 --> 00:18:56,102
[coughing]

518
00:18:56,203 --> 00:18:57,370
Ask your mother that one.

519
00:18:57,470 --> 00:18:58,505
She says to ask you.

520
00:18:58,605 --> 00:18:59,539
No.

521
00:18:59,639 --> 00:19:00,907
She is much better
able to answer that.

522
00:19:01,007 --> 00:19:02,108
She says she has no idea.

523
00:19:02,209 --> 00:19:03,843
[laughs]

524
00:19:03,943 --> 00:19:04,744
Tara neither.

525
00:19:07,180 --> 00:19:09,949
And that's my cue.

526
00:19:10,049 --> 00:19:11,618
Ben?

527
00:19:11,718 --> 00:19:12,819
- Want some more coffee?
- Ben?

528
00:19:12,919 --> 00:19:13,786
Your daughter had a question.

529
00:19:13,886 --> 00:19:14,787
What?

530
00:19:14,887 --> 00:19:16,223
What question?
Is there more coffee?

531
00:19:16,323 --> 00:19:17,224
Wendy?
- Oh my God.

532
00:19:25,665 --> 00:19:27,200
I take it the "O"
bomb has landed.

533
00:19:27,300 --> 00:19:28,868
Nicely played.

534
00:19:28,968 --> 00:19:30,737
Thank you.

535
00:19:30,837 --> 00:19:33,206
So I guess recycling's
gender-neutral.

536
00:19:33,306 --> 00:19:36,075
Can we go back to being
the couple that we were.

537
00:19:36,175 --> 00:19:38,211
The couple who wants to
do things for each other?

538
00:19:38,311 --> 00:19:39,145
Yes.

539
00:19:39,246 --> 00:19:40,380
And all that nice
gender mingling.

540
00:19:40,480 --> 00:19:43,916
[MUSIC - JIM BRYSON, "ACCIDENTAL
COUNTRY LEARNING"]

541
00:19:44,016 --> 00:19:46,185
(SINGING) Please,
will you help me

542
00:19:46,286 --> 00:19:48,521
and not take my friends away?

543
00:19:52,392 --> 00:19:55,228
We've got nothing to do.

544
00:19:55,328 --> 00:19:57,697
So, it was kind of
a low blow, sending

545
00:19:57,797 --> 00:19:59,131
Wendy over like a Trojan horse.

546
00:19:59,232 --> 00:20:02,134
And what about your low blow?

547
00:20:02,235 --> 00:20:03,536
That I haven't had a real job?

548
00:20:03,636 --> 00:20:05,137
Oh, come on, honey.

549
00:20:05,238 --> 00:20:06,373
There's not enough
money in the world

550
00:20:06,473 --> 00:20:08,207
to pay for what you've done.

551
00:20:08,308 --> 00:20:10,477
The kids are proof of that.

552
00:20:10,577 --> 00:20:12,612
Monica?

553
00:20:12,712 --> 00:20:14,514
Start [inaudible].

554
00:20:14,614 --> 00:20:15,648
How do I look?

555
00:20:15,748 --> 00:20:16,549
Fantastic.

556
00:20:16,649 --> 00:20:18,184
Go get them, tiger.

557
00:20:18,285 --> 00:20:20,520
What were we thinking?

558
00:20:20,620 --> 00:20:23,790
The way I see it, this whole
hypnotic suggestion thing

559
00:20:23,890 --> 00:20:26,025
means that nothing's
really my fault. Ever.

560
00:20:26,125 --> 00:20:27,159
That's right.

561
00:20:27,260 --> 00:20:29,562
Free will is overrated, honey.

562
00:20:29,662 --> 00:20:31,598
You know what I've been craving?

563
00:20:31,698 --> 00:20:33,900
Kiwi.

564
00:20:34,000 --> 00:20:35,034
Pineapple.

565
00:20:35,134 --> 00:20:36,703
I think you need
a foot massage.

566
00:20:36,803 --> 00:20:37,637
I do.

567
00:20:48,080 --> 00:20:49,949
Connie says they went
with someone more junior.

568
00:20:50,049 --> 00:20:50,983
[groans]

569
00:20:51,083 --> 00:20:52,251
Is that an insult?

570
00:20:52,352 --> 00:20:53,686
Or a compliment?

571
00:20:53,786 --> 00:20:54,954
You'll get the
next one, sweetheart.

572
00:20:55,054 --> 00:20:56,122
I promise.

573
00:20:56,222 --> 00:21:03,129
But in the meantime,
let us eat cake.

574
00:21:03,229 --> 00:21:04,464
Was this in the treaty.

575
00:21:04,564 --> 00:21:05,698
Oh, absolutely.

576
00:21:05,798 --> 00:21:07,967
Under the section
entitled "Foreplay."

577
00:21:14,674 --> 00:21:15,642
MOTHER (ON TV): You OK, sweetie?

578
00:21:18,244 --> 00:21:21,614
CHILD (ON TV): I miss him a lot.

579
00:21:21,714 --> 00:21:23,716
MOTHER (ON TV): Daddy's
not really gone, honey.

580
00:21:23,816 --> 00:21:27,019
Not if he's still in your heart.

581
00:21:27,119 --> 00:21:28,421
TOM: Hello!

582
00:21:28,521 --> 00:21:30,323
CHILD (ON TV): Do you think
he's watching over us?

583
00:21:30,423 --> 00:21:32,024
Dream on.

584
00:21:32,124 --> 00:21:33,626
It's popcorn bloat.

585
00:21:33,726 --> 00:21:35,161
TOM: Now I really am crying.

586
00:21:35,261 --> 00:21:39,566
[MUSIC - DAVID CELIA, "AFRAID TO
CHANGE"]

587
00:21:39,666 --> 00:21:44,804
(SINGING) And now the
seasons change around me.

588
00:21:44,904 --> 00:21:50,176
I'm staring at a tree, or
is it looking back at me?

589
00:21:50,276 --> 00:21:54,146
Trying to fit borders
that surround me.

590
00:21:54,246 --> 00:21:59,719
I'm one piece in the puzzle
of a box I try to guzzle.

591
00:21:59,819 --> 00:22:02,622
I don't know what to do.

592
00:22:02,722 --> 00:22:09,396
Still keep thinking how
I'm lucky to have you.

593
00:22:09,496 --> 00:22:13,065
You know some people share
a different point of view.

594
00:22:13,165 --> 00:22:19,372
Things are more attractive
when they're shiny and new.

595
00:22:19,472 --> 00:22:22,409
Don't be afraid to change

596
00:22:22,459 --> 00:22:27,009
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